Curious to Confident
Learn American mahjong from the beginning, at a pace that gives you room to ask questions. Meet your tiles, make sense of the card, and build toward full games one step at a time. Taking a moment to think is part of learning.
Stage 1: Get Oriented
Before you touch a rack, get your footing. What American mahjong actually is, what a real game night looks like, and why the card changes every single year (that part turns out to be the fun part). Meet the tiles, suits, winds, dragons, flowers, jokers, until you can spot every one of them on sight.
Free next step
Meet the mahjong tiles: start with the tile families and a printable reference.
Next step
Beginner Class Priority List: Hear when the next live beginner class opens.
Stage 2: Read the Card Without Panic
The card looks like a foreign language until, one day, it doesn't. You'll learn how it's organized into sections and lines, how we reference hands (something like "2026 #1" or "Quints #3"), and how to match the tiles in your rack to what a hand is actually asking for. We go slow, and every example is pulled from the current year's card.
Next step
How to read the NMJL card: Learn the symbols and colors at your own pace.
Stage 3: Survive Your First Charleston
The Charleston trips up almost everyone at first. You'll learn what it's actually for and the mindset shift that makes it click: passing is sorting, not losing. Then a simple keep-or-pass ladder you can run in your head mid-game, with room to pause and ask questions.
Free next step
Charleston Pocket Guide : the keep-or-pass ladder, free, print it and keep it by your rack.
Next step
The complete Charleston guide: Walk through the pass order before your next game.
Stage 4: Pick a Hand and Play a Full Game
You'll learn how to choose a realistic hand from your deal instead of chasing the prettiest one on the card, plus turn mechanics: drawing, discarding, calling, and what to do when your plan falls apart (it will, and that's fine). Then real guided games, on Zoom or in person, where mistakes are expected and named as normal, not something to apologize for.
Next step
Live Zoom classes: Find a topic and experience level that fit your game. For future instruction from the very beginning, join the beginner class priority list.
Stage 5: Jokers, Exposures, and Finishing Strong
You'll learn how jokers actually work at the table, taught against the current NMJL rules, never from memory. What exposing means, when it happens, and the etiquette around it. And you'll hit a real milestone here: your first win, or your first almost-had-it story. Both count.
Go deeper
Confidence Club : this is exactly where this path hands off.
Where this path leads
Once you know the basic rules and can play through a game, the Confidence Club gives you a place to keep growing: monthly challenges, member sessions and Q&As, a member replay library, and a community of women learning alongside you. Weekly online games require a separate paid I Love Mahj subscription. Separately advertised paid Zoom classes are separate purchases.